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Am I Hard to Love? Self-Discovery Quiz
Am I Hard to Love? Self-Discovery QuizSkip to ContentQuizzesSearchQUIZZESRANDOMEXPLORE Courses Guides About Us wikiHow Home Categories Dating Friendship Sex & Intimacy Partnership Self LOG IN Log in Social login does not work in incognito and private browsers. Please log in with your username or email to continue. Facebook Google wikiHow Account No account yet? Create an account SubscribeHomeRandomBrowse ArticlesTrendingNewQuizzes & GamesAll QuizzesHotLove QuizzesPersonality QuizzesFun GamesDating SimulatorLearn Something NewForumsCoursesHappiness HubExplore MoreSupport wikiHowAbout wikiHowLog in / Sign upTerms of UseQuizzesLove Quizzes Am I Too Hard to Love? Uncover the subconscious habits that might be putting distance in your relationships. Start QuizLove is easy, love is kind... but what if love is a little tough? Does it seem like it takes extra effort for people to love you? Are you the problem? Are you hard to love?We're here to help you find out. Just answer a few simple questions about your experience and perspective, and we'll tell you if you're the problem. Quizzes Are More Fun With Friends Share Quiz on Facebook Share Quiz on X Pin Quiz on Pinterest Link copied! Copy Quiz Link More Share Options Share Questions Overview Start Quiz 1. How long does it usually take you to text back? Anywhere from 1-6 business days. Don't rush me. It can take weeks, sometimes. Sorry! I try to get back to people same-day. I text back instantly, when I can! 2. In general, how would you rate your self-esteem? ⭐ ⭐⭐ ⭐⭐⭐ ⭐⭐⭐⭐ ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 3. Have you been in a committed relationship before? I'm in one now! Many times, but not right now. Once or twice, but I don't have a whole lot of experience. Never. 4. Would you say you have high dating standards? Super high. The best deserves the best! Pretty high. I'm not about to settle. Eh, sorta. I'm open-minded, but not messing around. Not at all. 5. You overhear a friend say something negative about you. What do you do? Spread rumors about them. It's only fair! Calmly ask them about it in private next time I see them. Mind my business and keep it moving. Whatever. Confront them immediately. Say that to my face! 6. How do you typically prefer people show you love? I like to be touched, hugged, and cuddled! I like to be praised and complimented. I like to be given things, like gifts or favors. I prefer small gestures, like doing the chores for me. I just like spending time with them! 7. Which of these best describes you? My relationships tend to be loving and trusting. I worry that the people around me don't really like me, and I sometimes need convincing. I worry that I don't love people enough, and so I try to make up for it with more effort. 8. When you feel down, how do you pick yourself up? I go somewhere alone to clear my head. I hang out with people to distract myself. I ignore the feeling and just push on through. I do something I enjoy to remind myself of good things. 9. 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Some people are naturally that way; some people have to learn it like a skill. If that's something you want for yourself, then you're in the right place! We talked to relationship experts for their tips on how to better give and receive love:Love and empowerment coach Jennifer Butler, MSW, says, "The first step is really becoming the person that you want to be. Loving yourself so fiercely, knowing yourself and being an amazing partner for yourself."[1] X Expert Source Jennifer Butler, MSWLove & Empowerment Coach Expert InterviewDating coach Alessandra Conti adds, "Be yourself. Do be the best version of yourself... Do not try to be the person that you think they want you to be... Ultimately be the best version of yourself and shine."[2] X Expert Source Alessandra ContiDating Coach Expert InterviewRelationship coach and biodata profile expert Ayushi Mathur agrees, saying, "It's better to be who you are and not change just to be loved, because if you're changing just to be loved, it's probably showing that your self-worth is not at a great place."[3] X Expert Source Ayushi MathurRelationship Coach and Biodata Profile Expert Expert InterviewCommunication therapist Rebecca Tenzer, MAT, MA, LCSW, gives us some practical tips: "Confidence can be magnetic. Stand tall, make eye contact, and speak with conviction. Confidence often attracts positive attention."[4] X Expert Source Rebecca Tenzer, MAT, MA, LCSW, CCTP, CGCS, CCATP, CCFPCommunication Therapist Expert InterviewRelationships coach John Keegan adds, "Being cool really is being someone who's able to be at ease, really, in all situations... A person can be at ease and relaxed with what's happening."[5] X Expert Source John KeeganRelationships Coach Expert InterviewLicensed professional counselor Casey Lee says, "If you can feel secure about yourself, you will be free to be authentic, vulnerable, assertive, interested, and accepting of others. These are qualities that most people like."[6] X Expert Source Casey LeeLicensed Professional Counselor (LPC) Expert InterviewWant to learn more?For more information about giving and getting love, check out these resources:https://health.clevelandclinic.org/understanding-love-stages-and-languageshttps://www.apa.org/topics/marriage-relationships/healthy-relationshipshttps://www.helpguide.org/relationships/social-connection/making-good-friendsYou Might Also Like 150+ Love Paragraphs to Make Him Feel SpecialHow toImpress a Girl with Words8 Reasons You're Sleepy Around Your Partner70+ Cute & Flirty Spanish Nicknames for Your GirlfriendReferences↑ Jennifer Butler, MSW. Love & Empowerment Coach. Expert Interview↑ Alessandra Conti. Dating Coach. Expert Interview↑ Ayushi Mathur. Relationship Coach and Biodata Profile Expert. Expert Interview↑ Rebecca Tenzer, MAT, MA, LCSW, CCTP, CGCS, CCATP, CCFP. Communication Therapist. Expert Interview↑ John Keegan. Relationships Coach. Expert Interview↑ Casey Lee. Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC). Expert InterviewCookies make wikiHow better. By continuing to use our site, you agree to our cookie policy. Co-authored by: Jennifer Butler, MSW Love & Empowerment Coach Click a star to vote Co-authors: 1 Updated: July 23, 2026 Views: 4,554 Rank Top Quizzers This Week Quizzes 1 Creative_Shapeshifter_255 375 2 WikiCassowaryJumper116 295 3 WikiToadHugger774 184 Take More Quizzes More Quizzes Which Lookism Character Would I Be Quiz Mental Health Test (Winnie the Pooh Pathology) What Does Your Favorite Animal Say About You? Explore All Quizzes QuizzesLove Quizzes © 2026 wikiHow, Inc. All rights reserved. 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